At the core of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is the balance between acceptance and change. DBT teaches individuals how to acknowledge and accept their thoughts, emotions, experiences, and circumstances while developing the skills needed to change ineffective behaviors and improve their quality of life.
“Dialectical” means two opposing things being true at once. In DBT, the dialectics are Acceptance and Change. DBT focuses on helping people accept the reality of their lives and behaviors AND helping them learn to change their lives and their unhealthy behaviors.
Teaches clients to live ‘here and now’ and not stay in the past or worry about the future.
Teaches clients how to detect and reflect a person’s emotions without judgment and determine what role those emotions play in our bodies and minds.
Teaches clients how to tolerate strong emotions that usually send the person into a whirlwind of emotions and thoughts, often leading to destructive behaviors.
Teaches clients to ask for what they need from themselves and others while keeping calm if things don’t go as desired.
*If the treatment has 1–3 of these components, it is considered DBT-informed.
DBT has proved effective for these conditions because each is thought to be associated with unhealthy or problematic efforts to control intense, negative emotions. Rather than depending on efforts that cause problems for the person, DBT helps people learn healthier ways to cope.
Having BPD is usually associated with instability in relationships, self-image and emotions. Often, this instability stems from a fear of abandonment. Through the skills learned in DBT, individuals can learn to better control all of these areas by taking a step back, being more mindful, analyzing what works, and acquiring new behaviors.